How Can I Open Further to Abundance?

This Millionaire Heart audio guides you through a process of uncovering what is currently blocking your heart and then releasing and opening it to receive abundance.

The audio comes to you compliments of Rikka Zimmerman and Darius Barazandeh. And I have actually provided you with two versions of this recording.

Version One is the original recording. If you enjoy metaphysical philosophies and want to hear more of Rikka and Darius’ personal stories, then you will likely prefer the full-length original.

Version Two is the shortened, to-the-point version, where I have deleted a lot of the spiritual or philosophical stuff and just kept the key points and the exercise I want you to do, which will begin the process of setting you free.

At the end of both versions is the Q & A from other listeners on the call. And yes, they’re a bit woo-woo, but don’t let that detract you from the value of this process!

At around 8 minutes (in Version Two), Darius will lead you through an exercise – this is an opportunity for you to experience some serious transformation. So the best way to facilitate that is to have your LTYF Workbook and pen next to you and be sitting or lying down comfortably.

After each question that Darius asks, put your iPod (or mp3 player) on pause and then write down your answer in your LTYF Workbook. This is exactly what I did and I ended up with 3 pages of powerful insights!

When Darius asks you a question, do NOT just answer it in your head! Pause the audio and write! If your answer spurs more thoughts, or questions, or realizations, just keep going; keep writing until you’re done. Then resume the audio again and listen until the next question. Have fun!

 

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As you may have realized, there’s a whole section to explore called Clear Your Blocks & Get Inspired with lots of tools for moving through whatever you come up against. But if you recognize that this is a big piece of what’s been blocking you in your life and you want to get on it quickly, then here are some good therapy modalities to investigate for help from an individual counselor (just plug these into Google or Bing and search for a good practitioner in your area – although both EFT and Matrix Reimprinting can be done via Skype):

  • Matrix Reimprinting therapy
  • Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT Tapping)
  • Hypnotherapy
  • Solution-focused Therapy

Why Do I Feel Like I’ll Never Earn Enough Money?

If, as you imagine making a good living from something you love doing, you find yourself beset with self-doubts, or asking yourself questions like:

  • Who am I to think I could do this?
  • I’m already so fortunate – how can I possibly ask for more?
  • Why should I deserve to live a better life than anyone else in my family?
  • How dare I even try to do things differently?
  • I’m crazy to think I could ever make this happen.
  • This is going to be one more thing I get excited about and then don’t follow through on.
  • This is just going to be another failure.
  • I can never make stuff like this work.
  • Every idea I have is crap.
  • I’m too scared to even think about what I really want – I could never do that.
  • I’m just not organized/motivated/inspired enough.
  • I’m just so tired all the time, I don’t have enough energy.
  • I’m not confident enough.
  • How do I avoid being gutted by other people’s doubts and criticism?
  • People are starving, how can I have so much? I would feel guilty.
  • And so on…

…then please listen to me very closely: If you don’t deal with the root causes of statements and questions like this, you actually won’t ever be successful.

Because until you believe that you deserve abundance (in all its forms) and you give yourself permission to receive that abundance, your core energy and visceral self will keep slamming the brakes on anything you attempt that moves you above those beliefs. We’re taught that giving is good. But giving cannot exist without receiving. We need both processes to be in flow to be any good at either!

This is not a mental or intellectual construct. Of course, logically, we all know that we would love to be rich and that we are worthy of love and abundance – but if we don’t feel that, in our heart of hearts, in our bones, then we will just keep blocking those things from entering our life.

This is why 44% of lottery winners are broke within 5 years and 32% have gained weight – they just cannot handle the incongruence between what they feel inside and their current reality (as an aside, emotionally, excess weight is often about protection – fear – and overwhelm). If you don’t shift your subconscious fears and beliefs about your worthiness, you will find it very difficult to manifest financial success and hold onto it!

So how do you change visceral, embedded beliefs and limitations?

There are many ways to gain awareness of your beliefs or patterns that either block you from receiving abundance, or sabotage it whenever it starts showing up. Blocks and saboteurs show up in all kinds of thought patterns and behaviours, but by learning to recognize them you will begin the process of freeing yourself and your business – which is in so many ways an expression of yourself – to soar ever higher.

I have a variety of techniques that I have personally tried and found to be powerful and effective at clearing and removing the blocks, saboteurs and limitations from my own life – and once you learn them, you can apply them however you need to.

Do NOT skip this process! If you are unwilling to address these issues and seek healing, then you are highly unlikely to be successful in business – or, at the very least, you will not be as successful as you could be.

This is a vital part of the Listen To Your Freedom process. I can give you all the step-by-step business tools and knowledge that I have, but if you have a block or saboteur operating simultaneously, your subconscious (or your ego) will find a way to sabotage you.

So let’s get to work! Grab your notebook and make yourself a quiet space to dive deep…

 


What Is Money?

We all have beliefs about money that we have unconsciously absorbed from our parents, family members, or childhood events. Almost everyone has inherited negative, limiting beliefs about money – even if they have, or have had, plenty of it in their life. But we cannot begin to shift these beliefs (which then determine our actions) until we know what they are!

So let’s begin the process of uncovering what your conscious and subconscious beliefs and attitudes towards money are.

Let yourself go loose-brain now and fill in the rest of this sentence in your own notebook with as many different words or sentences as you can – don’t judge yourself, or try to fill in the “right” answer. In fact, we WANT all your devious, undercover answers to come on out into the light here. So go ahead and write down every thought – positive or negative – that comes to mind…

 

Money is :

 

 

Now keep going and do the same with the next set – just go loose-brain and write down whatever pops into your head. Don’t edit or judge!

 

Rich women are :

Rich men are :

 


 

Are you surprised by some of your answers? I know when I did this exercise my answers to the ‘Rich women are…’ really shocked me! So now spend some time mulling over the significance of your answers and how these beliefs have been directing your life.

For example, if you’re a woman and you answered, “Rich women are cold and emotionally distant,” but yet you value being openhearted and compassionate… then what kind of roadblock are you holding against yourself becoming wealthy? If you have this kind of strong, negative belief, then you are not going to allow yourself to become rich, because you have an even stronger desire to remain openhearted and compassionate.

So whenever money starts to flow to you, you will shut it down before you receive too much – because you cannot allow yourself to become cold and emotionally distant. Are you beginning to understand how this works?

The great news is that change starts with awareness. Awareness is the rst and perhaps biggest step in the process of changing limiting, contractile beliefs into life-giving, expansive ones. As we go through the Listen To Your Freedom program, I will be giving you more tools to facilitate shift and change for your abundance blocks and saboteurs. But this is the first step along the journey.

 


Your Money Story

Continuing on, now let’s look at your formative years and your parents (or guardian) specifically. Each of us automatically absorbs components of our parents money stories – both good and bad – and these then form our money story.

In this audio, I talk a bit about my Dad’s money story and how no matter how much money he has, he is mired in poverty-consciousness. He is always in fear of losing his money and never lets himself spend much – even though he is a multimillionaire.

When you look at each of your parents’ money story you will uncover how they feel about money, their beliefs about money, their beliefs about their own worthiness, their fears, their limitations, their judgments etc. And rest assured that you have inherited many of these, simply by osmosis.

So take some time now to recall the things you heard Mum and Dad say throughout your childhood – negative or positive. And write down the way each of them behaved towards money and around money, worthiness, earning money, spending money, etc. If you were raised by someone other than Mom and Dad, then just substitute your guardian or major childhood parental figure or influence.

My Mom’s Money Story:

 

 

 

 

My Dad’s Money Story:

 

 

 

 

 

Write down any insights, or things you never realized before, about how your parents’ beliefs have affected yours:

 


 

How was this exercise for you? Did you learn something interesting, surprising, or revealing about your relationship to money? It’s amazing what we can carry around with us that we’re not aware of. Many people start to feel a profound shift after that exercise – if that’s you, try revisiting your answers when you find your blocks and saboteurs creeping up again. And now that you’ve identified some of them, you’ll have an easier time spotting them for what they are – rather than getting sidetracked or blocked by them! You’ve taken the first step in opening up the flow of money and allowing it to come to you.

 

Why Am I Not Having the Success I Feel I Am Working So Hard For?

How are you feeling as you’re getting closer to launching your site, overhauling your existing site, or implementing some big changes to your business? Do you notice any resistance arising in your thoughts, feelings of overwhelm, or perhaps a lack of action?  Well you know I’ve got your back!

Join me as I talk to Lisa-Marie Cabrelli from her perspective of being very successful in her own businesses (on Amazon’s Top 25 Seller list for Xmas 2012) and also as a business coach – about the things that come up to hold us back from being and living our truest, most vital self.

As Lisa-Marie says in this interview:

The most devastating thing to me is when you find people who have worked really, really hard for many years, and aren’t where they’re supposed to be, because they haven’t recognized that they have one of these blocks or saboteurs in their life. They haven’t even understood that it existed, so they have not even had the opportunity to work on it. They’ve wasted all of this time and energy working towards something that can never happen, because they’ve got one of these major blocks that are interfering with their progress.”

Join us as Lisa-Marie shares effective tools to overcome, or push through those blocks and saboteurs, for herself and her clients; to clear your blocks to success and living an extraordinary life. This call has the power begin a sea-change in your life, so don’t miss this one!

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