When your time is so restricted, how do you carve out a decent amount of time to plan a business, work on a business, set up a business, get it running and then keep it running?
In the audio below I share solid strategies for when and how to work even when you have young kids or a full-time job, how to get the members of your family on board and motivated to support you, and how to set some clear boundaries to protect your work space.
I answers questions like:
- “My girlfriend is really starting to resent the time I’m spending on my new business. How do I juggle my full-time job, my girlfriend and my new business?”
- “I have 4 kids, the youngest is only two and my products are all audio-based – how can I ever get a QUIET time to record?”
- “Now that I’m working on my new business, my house is turning into a pigsty! Then I can’t work effectively because the mess and clutter invades my brain and I can’t afford a cleaner – what can I do?”
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Kid Interruptions
Randi Zuckerberg at DotComplicated asked parents to share their strategies for how they managed to stay productive with kids running around. Here are some of the best responses:
Set Your Boundaries
I’m a former tv news journalist so I like deadlines. I’m constantly setting deadlines/alarms on my iPhone. -@LizzieBtv
We have a structured day with set work & play times. My daughter knows that Mom works for a bit & then we play! -@writeassociate
I have a (stolen) hotel “privacy” card on my office door. I use it when I need to have no kid interruptions.- @amyjrosenberg
Door into my office is designated a “transporter” to elsewhere…once I’m through that door…#MommasGone -@sapienist
Make sure your office has a door, invest $100 in a train table and pay a babysitter for a few hours a week. -@lizapviana
Involve Your Kids
For creative work, involve your children. I enjoy their fresh perspectives & model healthy work ethic -@HalfTomS
I tell my kids I will do quick project or have snack with them at certain times. Then I’m off limits.- @jenniferwindrum
Find some part of the work you need to get done that they can help you do too – works every time!- @nick_johnstone
When All Else Fails
Dry hair shampoo, a trampoline, jump ropes, snacks and clear communication when “mom needs to work.”- @PorterGale
Hire a helping hand- @floragoog
I try to stress to my kids that, “Just like Daddy,” I have to work, but I do it from home.” -@jenniferwindrum
Lock them in the basement 😉 – @bristolmary
Now that you have some good, practical strategies to use to carve work time out of your busy day, let’s move onto the energetic piece of getting support from your loved ones…


If your business does have time-sensitive elements that come in via email, then go back to 
The final key for this unit of foundational strategies involves some introspection and stepping into your ‘observer self’, to determine where you are leaking your lifeforce energy.
But your observer self, looking on, notices that this type of drama occurs on a weekly basis. And maybe each new dramatic event takes 2 – 3 days of dialogue, support, or assistance to resolve. It takes up your time and your energy. When you sit down to work on your book again, you feel drained. You can’t think of much to say and you can’t stop thinking about poor mum, sis, friend, etc.
Being able to discern between tasks that are urgent (gotta do this now!) and important (these will still matter next month or next year) is an essential skill to develop.
I know I’m going against the current zeitgeist here when I state that multi-tasking is actually not an efficient way to work. Sorry! But that’s the truth and here’s why: When you allow (or force) yourself to focus on only one task at a time, you will complete that task much faster. And the quality of work you produce will be much higher due to your intense, laser focus on that one thing.
Close my email app. Do not look at emails until the last half hour of my work segment. Then check my business email box only.
It never ceases to surprise me how many people think they can be effective and efficient keeping their task list in their head. Yet every single person I know who has tested working both ways – keeping their to-do list in their head, versus writing it down – finds they accomplish much more, much faster by writing their task list down!










When your body has good energy and your brain is sharp and quick, you can zip through your work much faster. So although I could write an entire book on how to have vibrant health (oh wait,
So let’s not even mention the word ‘exercise’. Let’s talk about movement. And how about just making sure you MOVE your body somehow, every day?





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